3 Realistic Goals for Building a Stronger Connection with Readers
Simple daily habits that turn strangers into loyal readers
As writers, we often focus so much on publishing consistently that we forget the deeper goal—building trust and connection with our readers. Writing is not just about sharing ideas; it’s about making others feel understood, valued, and inspired to return for more. Just like in real conversations, showing up and engaging with sincerity creates bonds that last.
There is a thing called mental wavelength matching. When the other person understands your pain point, you feel heard and validated. Imagine this, you met a stranger in a book club and after a short conversation you feel that he is of your type. As the conversation deepens you start opening up about your pain point( say unable to wake up early). He gives some quick tips and you like it. Then the conversation ends. He promises to show up the next day but it never happens. You wait for him everyday but he does not show up. Would he be there in your mind? No, right. Same thing in writing.
If you want to build a connection you have to show up daily and be genuine in solving their problems.
Here are 3 goals to target while aiming to build a strong connection with the readers.
Goal #1 : Engage Directly Through Comments or Emails
Every day make it a habit to respond to at least 3 comments in the social media or any writing platform.
I personally do this. When I am too tired to write any post, I simple choose a post that I vibe with and a post a reply.
This shows
I am connected with what the author has written
A connection starts building
Send DMs( direct message) on Twitter or Substack. Share your writing journey if he is a bit ahead of you. If he is a bit behind you, ask about their pain points and proactively share solution.
Goal #2 : Share personal stories
People get connected with stories. If you present any valuable point through lifeless facts and figures, this will not appeal. But if you package it in a personal story this will highly relate to the strangers who ar reading your content. That’s the power of storytelling.
In your daily post share least one personal story related to your writing journey. A few points to include could be-
How dud you start writing?
What challenges you faced while writing daily?
Where do you see yourself in writing?
People will identify themselves through your stories an then the connection happens.
Goal #3 : Ask for readers feedback
Before I had launched my first paid product on 90 days content planner with chatgpt prompts to generate content ideas, I posted about it on social media to validate the idea.
The comments gave me confidence that beginner writers would want to spend money on this type of product.
When you ask for feedback about the product or any future business ideas, you get an idea of the the need of the readers and how your product is aligning with it. You can customize it according to it.
Connection doesn’t happen overnight—it’s built through consistent small actions. Whether you’re replying to a comment, sharing your personal journey, or asking for feedback, you’re planting seeds of trust that grow into long-term relationships. Choose one of these three goals to start with today, and over time, you’ll notice your readers not just reading your words but resonating with them.
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